Roleplay to Sublife: Classifying the types of dom/sub relations

"Do you get to have sex anytime you want?" "Is Jane always tied up at home?" "Do you carry a whip with you?" While Jane and I avoid having our dom-sub lifestyle be the focal point of our relationship status, sometimes our kinks leak out. And when it does, we have to prepare for a barrage of questions. A central theme is how much of our life and relationship is dominated by this lifestyle.