About us

Hi! I am Nic, boyfriend, soft toy, tickle buddy and dominant to Jane. Yep, somewhat like Fifty Shades of Grey. The last one might give you pause, especially when we are in conservative Asia. Being kinky comes with many negative connotations here, which we why we started this blog to share our thoughts on what … Continue reading About us

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Roleplay to Sublife: Classifying the types of dom/sub relations

"Do you get to have sex anytime you want?" "Is Jane always tied up at home?" "Do you carry a whip with you?" While Jane and I avoid having our dom-sub lifestyle be the focal point of our relationship status, sometimes our kinks leak out. And when it does, we have to prepare for a barrage of questions. A central theme is how much of our life and relationship is dominated by this lifestyle.